Media- Negative Effects

“Whoever controls the media, controls the mind.” 

– Jim Morrison

This is so true and just scary to think about. The media does control our minds, especially the youth. Young people are growing up in a world where there is a database telling them what to think, how to act, what is cool, what is not, who to love, who to hate, what to be, what to look like, etc.

Things like this can be so dangerous. All these kids are now growing up with body issues and self-confidence issues, they have to see what they’re not and what they don’t have everyday. They have to grow up in a world where there is constant comparison.

Databases control our thinking in a more literal way as well. The internet, with all these search engines, is tailored to each and every person individually; it collects data on them and only presents them with what it thinks they’ll like. It controls our information, it controls the way we receive our information, and it controls how we distribute our information.

Not saying that all media is bad, if you use it the right way it can be good. Nevertheless, we have to acknowledge the ever present negative effects that it has on our youth, and society as a whole.

About Thoughts

“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” 

― Albert Einstein

“We are addicted to our thoughts.” 

― Santosh Kalwar

“I think and think and think, I‘ve thought myself out of happiness one million times, but never once into it.” 

― Jonathan Safran Foer

“The mind is not a vessel to be filled, but a fire to be kindled.” 

― Plutarch

“Think before you speak. Read before you think.” 

― Fran Lebowitz

“The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.” 

― Terry Pratchett

“Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers.” 

― Voltaire

Life’s Little Wisdoms

Thought this was cute! How about you 😊??

Everyone wants to see the fortune but never wants to eat the cookie

Everyone wants the reassurance but never wants to do the work that comes with it

But we all know you have to eat the cookie for the fortune to come true 😉 

Life isn’t always black and white… It’s a million shades of grey. Life isn’t about knowing all the answers… It’s about becoming comfortable with the uncertainty. ❤ ❤

Hard Things To Hear

I recently had the privilege of listening to some amazing and heart-wrenching stories from people who have either experienced homelessness, faced poverty, or been through the justice system. This is something I took out of that experience…

“You don’t know what you would do if you were actually put in that situation- you simply don’t, and you can’t say you wouldn’t have done the same thing.”

You can not say you know what someone is going through if you have not been there yourself. You can be empathetic and be supportive, but never say you know what it’s like. And never say you wouldn’t have done something, because you’ll never know unless you experience that situation.

This is how we pass snap-judgements. We judge others’ actions without taking the time to understand their motives or the situation.

You are a family of five that is living in poverty. You have just used the last of your paycheck since getting fired from your already low-paying job. You have three young children and a sick partner to feed and take care of- How will you manage? Getting a new job takes time and involves lots of paperwork. What if it’s too late by the time you find one? But wait! You are offered something. It involving dealing illegal drugs- will you take it?

There are three turnouts to this scenario …
  1. You take the job and get enough money to keep your family alive
  2. You take the job, get caught, and are sent to jail- your family starves
  3. You don’t take the job and you and your family starve to death

If this was your last option to keep your family from starving, if this was the only way, you can’t say you wouldn’t have taken it!

If you yourself just read about a case involving a man caught selling drugs, your first thought would probably be ‘what a horrible person’ or ‘who is stupid enough to get involved with that’ or ‘he deserves what he’ll get’. But, what if the man convicted did that solely to save his family. You never know, and you can’t say you wouldn’t have done the exact same thing.

Trusting Time

“Give time time”

…Such a simple phrase, yet one that contains so much wisdom. Honestly, we get so caught up in planning for the future that we forget how to live in the present. We’re always thinking about what comes next rather than what is happening right now. We’re never able to take life day by day because of the way our society works- it’s nearly impossible!

Give time time. So what does that mean? Well, it means that we need to trust that things will happen when they’re suppose to happen. We need to believe that the universe has our best interests in mind. Everything happens for a reason, whether we figure out that reason in our lifetime or not. We need to give our life time to play out, leave time for things to happen, and give time time to work itself out. We are not the masters of time, we can’t control it, and we have no say in our ultimate fate.

We’ve become so impatient, not wanting to give time time. We want everything now. Society is becoming faster and faster. We no longer have to wait- we get results instantaneously. But, that means that we are getting used to having everything we want exactly when we want it. We don’t like to wait, we don’t want to work for things, and most of all, we crave a reassurance that the unpredictability of life just can’t give us.

You can’t speed time up or slow it down, so enjoy your wait, because that’s the best part. Once you have what you want, there’s nothing more to do. When there’s no more wait, you realize you’ve waisted what could have been something amazing and memorable just worrying about what was coming next.

…So, patience and trust is key in-order to change our mindsets. Time might be taking it’s sweet time, but it’ll happen if it’s meant to be.

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