Category: Self Care

That Girl Over There.. Yeah Her.. She’s Just As Lonely As You

A lot of people are just as lonely as you are, believe it or not.

With loneliness, we tend to forget about how a lot of people struggle with it at some point in their lives. Whether it be the broken down 15 year old girl who is just figuring out love and trying not to get her heart broken, or the college boy who misses his friends and family and tries to hide his pain with a big smile and goofy antics, or the mom who is stuck in a loveless marriage afraid of what her life would be like without the routine she’s known for so long.

Loneliness is something we all share; as humans we long for that connection. And when we don’t have that connection, especially when we watch others that do have it, it can become overwhelming and saddening. Loneliness can come in many different forms, such as the small moments where we feel alone or the more serious and longer periods of sadness that can lead to worse things.

If I’m being honest here, I don’t know how to fix loneliness, rather you can’t really “fix” it in the first place; there is just simply nothing that I can tell you that is going to “fix” your loneliness. However, even if I don’t know your exact situation, what I can do is tell you that I understand what it is like. And from my experience, when you know someone that is struggling with loneliness or even just someone that you’ve noticed is a little down lately, just make an effort to talk to them- AND HUGS! I think some of the most supportive and helpful things I’ve ever received were hugs from people who I knew understood.

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It Gets Hard Sometimes :(

You know, it’s hard sometimes to watch everyone around you be happy while you’re just sort-of there. All you want is someone to touch, to talk to, to laugh with… someone to love, for someone to love you. You are stuck watching everyone around you have the one thing you’ve always wanted.

WORDS OF WISDOM:

“A lot of personal worries and disappointments begin from making comparisons with others. And you’re destined to lose that challenge because of one major reason. You know all about yourself, your bad and good sides, your fortunes and misfortunes etc. BUT YOU KNOW ALMOST NOTHING ABOUT THEM. That makes you lose and feel disappointed. You see only the good side of these couple’s relationships, but you know nothing about the darkest sides of their bond. Who knows, maybe, if you knew that, you’d be very surprised and think otherwise…”

-Marseille Zalalov

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Someday…

Sometimes you just have to hold onto the belief that everything works out the way it’s suppose to. ❤

“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”
— Marilyn Monroe

“Someday, everything will make perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, be strong and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.”
— John Mayer


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Decisions In Life

-Decisions In Life-

One decision can set you on a whole new life course. Think about that for a second… There are several options with each choice we make. Can you think of a time when you wondered what would have happened if you had chosen something different? In an alternate reality, choosing the other option would have created a whole new you with a whole different life path. It is hard to imagine sometimes.

Each decision we make is connected, each choice shapes us into the people we are now. Even one different choice could change our lives completely, even if it is the simplest thing. The smallest choices can have the biggest impacts; more than we can ever know. If you have had a time like this, do you ever wonder if making the other choice would’ve created a better reality then the one you’re in now? Do you have any regrets over that choice?

That leads us into the question of are regrets really real? This sounds like a weird question doesn’t it? You might be thinking “well of course they are real, people have regrets all the time”! However, when you think about regrets, will you know you’ll have them after making a decision? Sometimes, but not always. By regretting a choice will it change the outcome? No. Do you believe everything works out the way it is meant to be? I do.

Having a fear of regrets can hold you back in life. It can prevent you from taking risks and truly living. Instead of worrying about life, just live it! Even if you end up regretting one choice, by living in the moment, you won’t regret your whole life in the end. So, regrets may be real after all, but that doesn’t mean you have to give into them; that is the way I like to think of it.

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Love… Myself?

“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”

-Lucille Ball

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Let’s Talk About Love!

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“She fears that she’ll never find someone that loves her the way she can love someone, whole-heartedness.”

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Do you ever have these fears?

Fears of being alone for the rest of your life, fears of commitment, fears of never finding someone who matches your intensity??

COMMENT: Any thoughts, fears, concerns, or advice about LOVE…

This is an open place to share your stories! 😊

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Love In My Life

Throughout this past week, I realized just how much I love the people in my life. I experienced this emotional moment that had me in tears. All of a sudden, I was just hit with the realization of how much I care about them and how much they love me as well. Sometimes we don’t realize things like this until it’s too late. Some people go the majority of their lives without having a moment like this; a moment that defines the definition of love. Although every person has their own definition, we all know it when we feel it. I am lucky enough to have this kind of love in my life, as many do not, or don’t even realize that they do. I believe this was a life-changing moment for me, and I hope sharing this moment will inspire others to think about all the love in their lives.

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