Decisions In Life

-Decisions In Life-

One decision can set you on a whole new life course. Think about that for a second… There are several options with each choice we make. Can you think of a time when you wondered what would have happened if you had chosen something different? In an alternate reality, choosing the other option would have created a whole new you with a whole different life path. It is hard to imagine sometimes.

Each decision we make is connected, each choice shapes us into the people we are now. Even one different choice could change our lives completely, even if it is the simplest thing. The smallest choices can have the biggest impacts; more than we can ever know. If you have had a time like this, do you ever wonder if making the other choice would’ve created a better reality then the one you’re in now? Do you have any regrets over that choice?

That leads us into the question of are regrets really real? This sounds like a weird question doesn’t it? You might be thinking “well of course they are real, people have regrets all the time”! However, when you think about regrets, will you know you’ll have them after making a decision? Sometimes, but not always. By regretting a choice will it change the outcome? No. Do you believe everything works out the way it is meant to be? I do.

Having a fear of regrets can hold you back in life. It can prevent you from taking risks and truly living. Instead of worrying about life, just live it! Even if you end up regretting one choice, by living in the moment, you won’t regret your whole life in the end. So, regrets may be real after all, but that doesn’t mean you have to give into them; that is the way I like to think of it.

Mind Wanderings??

-Mind Wanderings-

Do you ever wonder if we are the only beings in the universe? I mean of course it is highly likely that we are not the only ones, but who knows? Cosmology and theology are very fascinating subjects. You probably don’t think of yourself as “just a speck”, much less the whole population, the whole planet, or even the whole galaxy as being “just a speck”.. but in reality, everything we know is “just a speck” compared to what is out in the universe and beyond.

I believe in a “creator” or “ultimate power” in the universe, but I can’t help but wonder how we got here? If it really was a big bang? And how about evolution? Thoughts on creationism? There are so many questions with so few solid explanations; or so many different answers that you can’t even decide. No body knows! And we probably won’t ever know for sure. I mean how can we? It is just really interesting to think about. 🤔💭

Thoughts??

Let’s Talk About Love!

“She fears that she’ll never find someone that loves her the way she can love someone, whole-heartedness.”

Do you ever have these fears?

Fears of being alone for the rest of your life, fears of commitment, fears of never finding someone who matches your intensity??

COMMENT: Any thoughts, fears, concerns, or advice about LOVE…

This is an open place to share your stories! 😊

What Happens?

What happens to us after we die?

(These are the responses I received to this discussion today)

“I’d like to think we disperse our energy or matter into whatever or wherever we most admired or connected with.”

“When we die there are 7 seconds of brain activity, and for reference when we dream our brain is active for a fraction of a second, so my theory is that either we re-live our life over and over, or it’s just one big dream that lasts forever essentially giving us what we want.”

“I’m a believer in God, and I believe that when we die, our souls go to Heaven to be with Him. I believe that we find ultimate peace and unending love in this afterlife.”

“I believe that we are actually all the same person, and not just people but animals and plants too, and therefore all of life is perfectly fair because every good or bad thing we do we just do to ourselves.”

“I think that we reach our paradise; How? I’m not sure. But, I just know that we will find peace.”

“I believe that mother-nature rules over us and that there is this delicate balance in the universe that can be upset. I believe in karma and that everything happens for a reason. When we die, I believe all our actions are accounted for and we will be judged on how we respected this balance and how we treated nature.”

“In my perspective, when we die, we are reborn into another being. This is where the strange feelings of familiarity and memories of things we haven’t experienced come from.”

“I’m into the idea that if we have unfinished business, we can’t pass through into the afterlife until it is resolved.”

What are your theories??

11 Perspective-Changing Quotes

“You are only as free as you think you are and freedom will always be as real as you believe it to be.” -Robert M. Drake

“Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.” -Soren Kierkegaard

“I don’t think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains.” -Anne Frank

“Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future.” -Oscar Wilde

“Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.” -Omar Khayyam

“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” -Albert Einstein

“Every man is born as many men and dies as a single one.” -Martin Heidegger

“Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.” -Maya Angelou

“Life is too deep for words, so don’t try to describe it, just live it.” -C.S. Lewis

“Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude.” -Anne Frank

“Could I have been anyone other than me?” -Dave Matthews

30 Life Lessons

30 lessons to live by

  1. You are not your parents
  2. Collect moments, not things
  3. A man is not a financial plan
  4. Debt isn’t worth it
  5. Failure is growth
  6. Comparison is the thief of joy
  7. Change is good
  8. Age is just a number
  9. Body positivity has zero to do with what you believe is attractive
  10. If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all
  11. Putting up walls diminishes authenticity
  12. Exercise contributes to every aspect of your well being (physically, mentally, and emotionally)
  13. Giving love is one of the best gifts you can give
  14. You get more from giving more
  15. Listen to your head
  16. Grudges cause nothing but pain
  17. Travel makes you more interesting, insightful, and accepting
  18. You aren’t always right
  19. You define your life
  20. You can’t control others only yourself
  21. Gratitude multiplies happiness
  22. Please yourself first
  23. Self-awareness is more valuable then personal achievement
  24. Knowledge is power
  25. If you want something done right, do it yourself
  26. Your thoughts are like boomerangs (what you put out will come right back to you)
  27. The easy road is never it
  28. Honesty is far better than a lie
  29. If someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time
  30. Make every day count

Article by: #MILLENNIALLIFECRISIS

You all should really go check out her blog, it is absolutely amazing! Honestly, all the posts are deep, relatable, and true; which sometimes is hard to find.

Self Love

Self love is intimacy with your soul energy!

Self love is honestly one of the most important things you need to work on. Life can be hard enough without negative self talk and self loathing. Recognize that you’re only human, and it’s okay to make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. You’re doing the best you can, and that’s all that matters. Love yourself as you continue to grow. Appreciate all that you are, even when you aren’t where you want to be in life.

So often we sit on the edge of not knowing, our soul watching a forever battle between the heart and mind, when the answer is just past comfort, just past a breath that we should have already taken.

Compiled from: Anthony, Third Eye Thoughts, C. Churchill

“Purpose”

What does “purpose” actually mean?

Purpose is an emotion that you cultivate within yourself, and express to others in the form of service.

A Wasted Life?

What do you consider a wasted life? And do you ever fear the thought of regrets later in life?

A starting opinion: “For me, a wasted life is ignorance. The less you know, the less you are able to handle and contribute to basic social interactions. Staying in a box is a wasted life. And I believe the key to few regrets in life is just simply to live and learn.”

Do you agree with this statement? And what is your own opinion??

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