Today we live in a society that does not take good as being good enough. You have to be perfect. However, you can’t be perfect in just one part of your life; you have to conquer many skills in order to really be perfect.

But perfection is an impossible standard; it is an expectation that is simply impossible to reach. Nevertheless, it is constantly expected of us. 

Chasing perfection actually causes people to achieve less than those who have realistic standards.

On the other hand, excellence is the unlimited ability to improve the quality of what you have to offer. The foundation of lasting self-confidence and self-esteem is excellence. “The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential… these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence.”―Confucius. It is working towards being your best self; not a perfect self.

Yet, most of us don’t even reach this greatness; and the reason is because we hold ourselves back. Really it’s from the fear of not being perfect. We are so afraid of making mistakes, being vulnerable, and showing others our brokenness.

One week you can be on top of the world, and the next you could be at the very bottom of it- but that’s just life.

Sometimes your best self isn’t really that spectacular to others. But your greatness will always be different than another’s- so try not to worry too much.

You’ll never have everything figured out, even if you’re living your best life! Although some might disagree, happiness should be a priority, even if its not considered ‘crucial’ in the minds of society.

Really what’s the point in living a life that you’re not happy with?

Sometimes you have no choice, and you can’t really change things. But, if you can then go for it! Don’t let fear and society’s opinion hold you back. If you find happiness grasp it and hold it tight, don’t let anyone make you let it go.

Conclusion:

Stop striving for perfection because you’ll never be perfect- and that’s okay. Also, consider reevaluating a relationship if you feel that is what’s constantly being expected of you:))